You force life as if you were the cause — but a causeless cause beneath you needs no forcing, yet leaves nothing undone Watch yourself across a single ordinary day, and you will find one conviction running underneath it all: that you are the one making everything happen. You push the project forward, you keep
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What life asks of you is matched to the depth you truly are, not to who you think you are (= your “small self”) There is a fear you may never quite say aloud, though it shapes a great deal of the way you live. It is the fear that one day life will ask
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You can sell yourself fully — be seen, charge what you are worth, put your work in front of people — and never sell your soul. Your soul is never lost in the selling: it is lost in the lying — first of all, the lie you tell yourself Sooner or later, everyone has to
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Every frustration you have ever felt has the same hidden shape — a line drawn between you and something you have decided you are separate from — and the line is not real Think of the last time you were frustrated — not a grand crisis, just something perfectly ordinary: the traffic that would not
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Your suffering is not the pain itself but your resistance to it — and it all reduces to this: zero resistance, infinite tolerance Something is hurting you right now, or it will soon — that is not in question. A loss, an illness, a fear, an old wound that will not close. The pain of
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The one that is always behind you is the awareness that lives your life and looks out through your eyes — you cannot see it, lose it, or attain it, because it is the one doing the searching Right now, as you read this, something is looking out through your eyes. Not the words, not
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The root of all sin is ignorance, not evil — you harm because you do not see, and no force of will fixes what only clearer sight can Almost everything you were taught about being good rests on one assumption: that you do wrong because some part of you is bad, and the cure is
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The monster inside you was never a flaw to defeat — it’s the part of yourself you exiled, and the war you wage on it is exactly what keeps it monstrous There is something in you that you do not show anyone. A flash of rage that frightens you. A neediness you find pathetic. A
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You don’t actually choose whom you love — your only real choice is what you do once the pull has already arrived Ask whether you chose whom you love, and the quick answer is yes — or at least that you could have consciously made that choice, that with a little more sense you would
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Why the move that makes no sense to your rational mind is the only one that frees you — and why its very irrationality is the reason it works You carry a part of you that needs things to add up. Hand it a problem and it does what it always does — reasons, plans,
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Why dreaming with your eyes wide open has only one way in — and why that way is the opposite of everything you would normally do Notice, for a moment, how much of your day you do not actually remember. The commute that happened while you were elsewhere. The meal eaten while you answered messages.
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Why the foundation of happiness is not control but absolute trust — and why the more tightly you grip, the more unreachable happiness feels You have arranged things well. The accounts, the calendar, the people, the contingencies — you have learned to stay ahead of life, to see the problem before it arrives and have
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